Nov 26, 2009

Greatest tragedy of ...Love.

Half of the colors in this world and many of the words in every language seem to be invented for the expression of love probably because it is very important to express love and more than that it is not possible to control this expression of love.We never stop expressing it, because we can not and we should not.
But, there is something which I can not understand and I find it a greatest tragedy for 'Love' . It is evident from my exaggerated introduction of love that love is undeniably overrated.
It is very important to "feel" it because beauty of love truly reveal itself when it is underrated and not "Over-intellectualized". The introductory lines illustrate the intellectualizing of love.

Now, let me talk about something which is to the point and related to the topic.
The greatest tragedy of love started existing when people begun to over intellectualize it without paying much attention to the experience or expression of 'feelings'. Expression or experience of feelings allow you to be very unique in your approach or experience of love which usually does not happen when you emphasize solely on intellectualism. So, when most of us started to take our feelings for-granted we denied or blocked our very own and unique spirituality: the soul of our soul, the life of our life . And here is where the tragedy begun because from here we start to malfunction and misunderstand 'Love'. In this way most of us don't allow our self for the experience of love at its fullest.

Every human innately knows 'how' to love a person from your heart but the problematic thing is that are you sure this is 'Love' ? sadly, most of us do not know and may never know the answer. The worse case is when most of us tend to misunderstand love forever and later when everything goes wrong their is either 'Love' or 'God' to blame for it. There are many songs on the destruction of Love , aren't there?.
Ask yourself, could something like 'Love' would be destructive?, No. So, who is this which is making love problematic and destructive for you?, God? or Human?.

Actually, according to me anything which makes you realize your inner self your soul, or evokes great goodness in you, or provides you a valuable bond with God, is --Love. And everything which makes you feel shattered and breaks you into pieces or separates you from God and goodness is not love and it can never ever be Love. This, for me is an easy way to truly understand love and to stop making our life tragic in the name of so called love. Being misunderstood is the greatest tragedy for the 'feeling of Love'.

Only love mystifies a soul and modifies body in soul. If this is not happening with you then try to 'think' and 'feel' the reason.


Painting: Eduard Manet 1882.

Nov 25, 2009

Why do you have to love JINNAH ?

Tall and stately, but thin to the point of emaciation, languid and luxurious of habit, Mohammad Ali Jinnah's attenuated form is a deceptive sheath of a spirit of exceptional vitality and endurance. Somewhat formal and fastidious, and a little aloof and imperious of manner, the calm hauteur of his accustomed reserve but masks, for those who know him, a naive and eager humanity, an intuition quick and tender as a woman's, a humor gay and winning as a child's. Pre-eminently rational and practical, discreet and dispassionate in his estimate and acceptance of life, the obvious sanity and serenity of his worldly wisdom effectually disguise a shy and splendid idealism which is of the very essence of the man.
-Mrs Sarojini Naidu.

He was a 'Giver' .
He was a true 'leader' with amazing leadership capabilities, a leadership of a kind that he lead millions of people and on the other hand Gandhi was a humanist. It was only Jinnah who had the strength to face The British and to offer them a fight through Law and constitution.

Unlike Gandhi and other Hindu and Muslim leaders he did not change his language into Urdu or Hindi, Unlike these leaders He did not change his attire and never tried to prove anything with trivial and irrational (unsuccessful) resolutions of changes in attire or lifestyle started at that time. His logic and intellect were enough and he fought only with these two things.

I am a Pakistani and I really respect Gandhi for his humanistic approach.

But, I -LOVE- Jinnah ! and if given a choice I would prefer to be like Jinnah.

Because he is the only 'LEADER" that sub-continent has developed in last 100 years. He never hid his property, money or other possessions from the people of Pakistan and all these things which he earned as a lawyer through drastic hard work were donated and every penny of it was given to Pakistan. A large part of his Money was donated to Islamiya college Peshawar, then, to Sindh madrasa tul Islam and other institutions. MIND IT, THIS IS NO FICTION.

I want to share these quotes by Gandhi and Jinnah.

Gandhi : "If someone slaps you on your right cheek move forward your left one too."

Jinnah : "If someone slaps you for the first time it is their mistake.But, if someone slaps you for the second time then its your mistake."

My message to the so called liberal youth of Pakistan is, that, before you criticize Jinnah for making Pakistan or before you regret not being a part of India, think about your own political sensibility and knowledge. There is a difference between reviewing Chick flicks and Jinnah.

Nov 23, 2009

Hira questioning Destination.

What’s your say about significance of ‘defined’ destinations in our life? What difference, in your view point, can make in one’s life and in one’s journey?

Hira's question urged me to collect various pieces from the Past and Present in order to maintain a picture for future.


I consider myself as a figure inside a painting.And like every painting this one is a mixture of latent and manifest contents. There are many colors and intertwined expressions inside this painting, some of which co-ordinate and compliment each other, while other seem to oppose each other. If you look closely at the painting you would observe a defined background color/essence. If you are able to "see" beyond only then it would be possible for you to know what the painting is all about.
Life itself is like a painting and 'destination' is its true essence.
It does not matter how much beauty you add to your painting because if it lacks 'essence' if it does not have a defined background theme/color then everything would be superficial and meaningless and you would never be able to find the deepest level of contentment.

This is what I think.

What do you think?

Comedy of Psychology

Bad sense of humor is not about making a bad joke but what makes it so terribly bad is the open display of inner war between your inefficiency to say anything funny and the desperation to be funny.
The war or conflict between the urge to be Inadequate or desperate. So, to get rid of it either you master not displaying it or you abandon FALSENESS. Certainly, quitting fake-ness is a better what?, If you are a piece of shit (in terms of people), Sell this shit and promote this shit !